What age-appropriate really means in tween sex ed

Worried that explaining something like a sex toy or porn will “ruin their innocence”? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’ll show you what age-appropriate really means - and how to answer even tricky questions without overexposing your child or making it weird.

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✅ In this episode:

• What makes a conversation “age-appropriate” (it’s not the topic - it’s the explanation)
• Why kids ask about sex toys, porn or adult content - and how to respond calmly
• How to explain complex or “adult” topics in simple, safe, child-friendly language
• What happens when we avoid the conversation (and who answers their questions instead)

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🦄 About Cath Hakanson

If you want to teach your tween about sex without fear or awkwardness, then I’m the sex educator that families across the globe turn to. An author, certified sexologist and a wonderfully AuDHD mother of two neurodivergent kids, I’m real, relatable and totally unshockable. I simplify sex ed so parents (like you) can start teaching their tween about sex ed. Minus the cringe or shame!  

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This podcast represents the views, opinions and education of it’s host and has been produced with the intention that it acts purely as general information. It is not intended to be taken or used as a substitute for medical or other professional advice. We do not assume any responsibility for any liability, loss, damage or risk that may follow from the use or reliance of this podcast episode.