Teaching Kids to Work, Love, and Be Bored: Wisdom from a Mom of 8

Dorothy Scoresby grew up shy on a quiet Idaho farm—but a message from a classmate in 4th grade changed everything. In this episode of the Sendy Mom Podcast, Dorothy shares how she slowly stepped out of her shell, raised 8 children to value hard work and sibling connection, and discovered peace and purpose through quilting and creativity. From parenting tips to overcoming social anxiety and embracing the later years with joy, this conversation is full of heartfelt wisdom for introverts, moms, and creatives alike.

Meet my Guest:

Dorothy Scoresby is salt of the earth. She is so genuine and authentic. Growing up on a 4000+ acre farm in southeastern Idaho, Dorothy learned the value of hard work, love and loyalty to family, and the simple joys of creating your own play. After much begging and cajoling, she finally accepted the marriage proposal of her childhood friend, Lyn Scoresby. They are still the best of friends and have a warm marriage. They have 8 children together. Their children still like them and they all get together frequently. With 24 grandchildren and one great granddaughter, Dorothy feels her life as a Sendy Mom is complete. They have lived in Highland for 52 years and consider it the best decision they ever made.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Friendship

01:24 Growing Up on an Idaho Farm

05:10 Yellowstone Park for Families

08:53 Parenting with Structure and Love

10:43 Overcoming Social Anxiety

13:31 Marrying Your Childhood Friend

19:42 Teaching Children It's Good to be Bored

23:02 Creativity Through Quilting

28:11 Finding Purpose as you Age

34:50 Fostering Love Between Siblings

41:31 A Polygamist's Granddaughter

44:47 Quilting Passions and Postcards

47:24 Romance with Your Spouse

52:05 Rapid Fire Questions

Key Takeaways:

• A small comment from a classmate can spark lifelong change.
• Children thrive with structure, work, and love.
• Overcoming social anxiety takes small, brave steps over time.
• Boredom can be a gift—it teaches creativity and self-reliance.
• Quilting is more than a hobby—it’s a form of storytelling and legacy.
• Raising a large family requires patience, purpose, and humor.
• Family bonds deepen when kids learn to love and serve each other.
• Growing older can bring new adventures and a deep sense of purpose.

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