SELFWIFE
A solo podcast about learning how to prioritize myself after a lifetime of doing the opposite.
"'I care for myself the way I used to care about you" and shit
- Update frequency
- every 14 days
- Average duration
- 52 minutes
- Episodes
- 33
- Years Active
- 2023 - 2025
Operation Aspen: The Great Puppy Rescue | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 37
We rescued a precious 9 month old puppy 😃
From my dad who was mistreating her 😞
This saga started years ago and has been painful, but has finally lead to this wonderful moment with an adorable al…
01:03:50 |
Tue 24 Jun 2025
A Survival Guide Of Sorts | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 35
The end of ~The American Experiment~ is upon us. Here is some advice from one person who has lived the majority of her life under the oppressive thumb of Christian Authoritarianism.
00:51:30 |
Thu 21 Nov 2024
Man Oh Man | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 34
I just can't be close with men anymore. These are some reasons why.
00:47:55 |
Thu 19 Sep 2024
All Of A Sudden, I Fear Change | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 33
Change is rolling in and I am afraid of it for the first time ever. I used to love change, change meant things might get better! But life feels so good in solitude that I am scared to re-emerge. But …
00:26:38 |
Thu 05 Sep 2024
Choosing A Non-Traditional Life | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 32
***Editor's note: every time I gesture towards the table in this episode, there is a very annoying sound that happens that I could not hear until I started editing. I am so sorry. Me, the table and t…
00:46:54 |
Thu 08 Aug 2024
The Road To Abuse Is Paved With Fundamentalism | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 31
topics include but are not limited to:
the fundamentalist religion to abuse pipeline
Ballerina Farm
Nara Smith
the tradwife and the selfwife
the danger and stupidity of The Strong-Willed Child by J…
00:50:15 |
Wed 31 Jul 2024
Basics Bitch | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 30
SELFWIFE episode 30 is about the importance of learning and prioritizing ~the basics~ late in life if you were never taught them in your formative years, including some of my current favorite basics …
00:50:45 |
Wed 10 Jul 2024
The Male Gaze Is Hell | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 29
**CW- child abuse, sexual assault, body dysmorphia and disordered eating are discussed**
Telling you some stories about how the male gaze was made the center of my life by my m*m since toddlerhood, …
00:57:18 |
Wed 26 Jun 2024
Go Find The Fuel | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 28
this episode is for the folks whose families hinder instead of help them // topics include: how to stay motivated, how to allow yourself to create if you don't come from creative people, the two dude…
00:42:42 |
Wed 12 Jun 2024
The Internet Is Other People | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 27
Will I ever not get sick to my stomach about marketing my work? Other topics discussed: Anxiety! Alcohol! Contrast! Leaving my phone outside overnight and having deep realizations! Just listen to the…
00:34:43 |
Wed 05 Jun 2024
Coming Out As An Introvert | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 26
topics discussed:
getting an agent in LA
auditioning
the commercial i booked
being called a blank canvas
BEING a blank canvas
unlearning being a blank canvas
allowing new (old) inspiration in
t…
00:35:32 |
Wed 15 May 2024
My Sad Happy List | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 25
Topics Discussed:
Making my first Happy List at age 31
New therapist
Creating small avenues to joy
Being a reformed pick me
The impact of your primary caretakers putting your needs last
What…
00:51:05 |
Wed 24 Apr 2024
OUT of CONTROL!! | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 24
On episode 24 of SELFWIFE, I'm joined by my lifelong friend Coleen who grew up in the same very small, very strange, very fundamentalist Christian church that I did. In this ep we remember the good, …
01:31:43 |
Wed 03 Apr 2024
Better But Still Bad | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 23
a term i've coined for a phenomenon i've noticed that tricks vulnerable people into remaining in dangerous situations
00:47:47 |
Wed 17 Jan 2024
Everybody Gets the Blues | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 22
Diary episode - on:
loss, lessons, deconstruction, building standards late in life, getting better at boundaries, not knowing what's next, sitting in the pain and through it all - prioritizing onese…
00:44:53 |
Wed 10 Jan 2024
The Inbred Sons of Father Abraham | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 21
Day after day, we watch mass death and destruction in the name of religion. Tale as old as time. Islam, Judaism and Christianity are the three, main, Abrahamic Religions and that got me thinking, wha…
01:07:07 |
Wed 22 Nov 2023
The Draft Vs. My Dad | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 19
as Israeli airstrikes continue to surge in Gaza, i'm seeing jokes about a new draft pop up all over the internet and i wondered all day about what that would look like these days. then i took the opp…
00:51:33 |
Wed 25 Oct 2023
9 Ways To Regulate | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 16
9 different things i've been practicing every day, for a little over a year now, to regulate and heal my nervous system 𖤣.𖥧.𖡼.⚘
00:54:00 |
Wed 27 Sep 2023
Astonishing Rather Baroque Attacks | SELFWIFE Podcast | Episode 15
more James Dobson intel and related realizations / the time my mom threatened to kill my cat for biting her / the time my mom tried to humiliate me out of being suicidal / men like Ru****l Br**d and …
01:08:14 |
Wed 20 Sep 2023
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