104: Schools, Side-Boob & Shots, Untold Truths & Unexpected Pivots w/ Sydni O'Connell

In this special episode, Melissa shares parts of her story she has never shared. Melissa’s guest shares so many similarities with Melissa’s story it’s almost eerie! Melissa and Sydni O’Connell go deep on betrayal and moving forward after all you envisioned for your life is taken from you. Sydni talks about fighting for her job on her honeymoon and the surreal reality check of managing the unexpected. 

Melissa and Sydni also explore the following:

• Why you owe yourself to build your safety from within.
• How and why to visualize the highs and lows.
• Believing “If I don’t do anything wrong, everything will go right” can be detrimental to your success - and how it shows up.

Highlights

• 1:24 - Working with kids in a unique way
• 2:43 - Dream jobs get crushed
• 7:19 - The consequences for standing for your beliefs
• 9:00 - Strength through adversity and politics
• 11:10 - Taking full ownership of your safety
• 14:56 - Managing the feelings-fallout from a setback
• 16:23 - Recognizing when to leave “right” behind
• 20:08 - Keeping yourself out of victimhood
• 22:39 - One lesson to have always
• 26:12 - True pivotal moments
• 29:21 - Control what you can control (and leave the rest)
• 32:05 - How to know when to move on

Find Sydni on Instagram @exerpsyched.

And if you want to go deeper with Melissa to have your best year ever, learn more about her upcoming event in Tulum!!!

Grief and Guts is for anyone navigating:

• Bereaved parents
• Aging parents
• Divorce
• Empty nest
• Fertility journey
• Job loss
• Relationship ending
• Moving
• The loss of sense of self
• The loss of life envisioned

Meet the host

When Melissa Dlugolecki lost her daughter Leyden, in a case termed a catastrophe, she didn't want to live... never mind love life, again.

As a bereaved mother, when Melissa lost my daughter Leyden, she never thought she would be happy again. Melissa felt guilty when she started to smile.

​As a former educator, Melissa felt trapped by the politics, paperwork, and constricting schedule of the education system.

Yet after building a 7-figure business, traveling the world, launching a podcast, writing a book (more to come), and coaching thousands of individuals, she has found one thing to be true for all of us…

We have the power to create our own happiness, regardless of circumstances. And there are certain processes and strategies effective in doing so.

It’s not just a “think positive” method or a “go harder” approach. I intertwine a dance of intangibles around our energy management with tangibles such as action steps, communication strategies, and ways to feel our best.

Growth isn't always forward progress. It's messy. It's hard. But it is worth it. And while you work your way to whatever goal you are pursuing, just keep showing up. Life is too short to feel stuck.

Connect with Melissa

• Learn more at Melissa’s website
• Join the conversation on Instagram

Credits

 Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

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