Why Men Stop Pursuing (and What to Do Instead of Chasing Him)

Ever had a man come on strong at the start… only to suddenly cool off? If you’re wondering why men stop pursuing and how to respond without chasing him, this episode is your blueprint.

You’ll finally understand the real reason pursuit fades, what it means about him (not you), and how to stay magnetic instead of falling into the exhausting cycle of over-functioning.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why men stop pursuing after the early dates—and what it really signals about commitment-ready men
• The #1 mindset shift that keeps you from chasing when he pulls back
• How to use his pursuit (or lack of it) as clarity about his emotional availability
• The secret to staying confident in dating even when things slow down
• What to do instead of lowering your standards or “auditioning” to be chosen

If you’ve ever felt that sting of someone pulling away, this conversation will change how you see pursuit forever. You’ll leave knowing exactly what to do instead of chasing—so you can attract the man who doesn’t stop showing up.

About Said Lovingly

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

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