The Dating Mindset That Pushes Men Away

The dating mindset for women that kills magnetism? Proving you’re “the one.” Here’s why it pushes commitment-ready men away.

If you’ve ever found yourself over-giving, over-proving, or silently hoping he’ll finally see you as girlfriend or wife material…this episode is your wake-up call.

The truth? Proving your worth pushes men away.

Inside this episode, I’ll show you how to take him off the pedestal, reclaim your energy, and embody the self-worth that makes you magnetic to commitment-ready men.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why proving you’re “the one” lowers your magnetism and self-worth in dating;

- The hidden energy shift that repels emotionally available, high-quality men;

- How to raise your standards in dating and attract commitment-ready love with ease; 

- The #1 mindset shift that stops chasing and starts magnetizing love

Stop proving. Start attracting. Tune into the episode!

ABOUT THE PODCAST

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

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