How to Have Confidence in Dating (Flaws, Sensitivity, and All)

Think you need to fix your flaws to be chosen? The truth: confidence in dating comes from embracing every part of you. Yes, even if you think you're "too much" or have "thin skin."

Confidence in dating doesn’t come from pretending to be perfect—it comes from embracing your so-called flaws, quirks, and sensitivities. When you stop hustling to “prove you’re not too much” and start owning every part of yourself, your magnetism skyrockets.

In this episode, I share how I went from being crushed by comments like “you’re high-maintenance” to attracting men who loved me because of it—not in spite of it. If you’ve ever felt like you need to tone yourself down or fix yourself to be chosen, this conversation will be be a gamechanger for you.

You’ll learn how to:

- Build confidence in dating that isn’t shaken by “too much” or "not enough" labels

- Shift your self-worth in love so flaws no longer hold power over you

- Stop over-explaining and start attracting men who celebrate you

- Unlock magnetic feminine energy that draws in commitment-ready love

Here’s the truth: you don’t need to be perfect to be loved. You get to bring your full self—flaws, fire, and sensitivity—and still have a happy, healthy, committed relationship with a man who adores you. Listen to the episode to understand how. 

ABOUT THE PODCAST

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

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