What’s Real and What Isn’t in a Man’s Commitment

If you find yourself taking the responsibility for the relationship and the apologeticness of the conflicts that happen all the time… if you’re always trying to solve stuff, excusing him for bad behavior, and it’s always in 60/40, 70/30 mode where you’re doing most of it—something’s wrong.

The Modern Siren tools work—sometimes so well that a man who isn’t truly ready can still look like he is.

That’s why the real power isn’t just in using the tools—it’s in going deeper, listening to your intuition, and choosing only the love that’s real.

It fools you because he’s able to step up when he wants to.

And by the way, this is a narcissist’s whole ability for roping in women—they’re really good at convincing you they’ve got the goods.

They can convince you for months, even years, and then their real self shows up.

You don’t get to have a long-distance relationship because you can’t handle it, because we choose difficult relationships for a reason.

This is something I want you to ask yourself: Why am I choosing a difficult relationship?

Difficult would be a long distance.

I don’t get to touch him.

He doesn’t get to smell me.

He doesn’t get to feel me.

So how can he actually feel anything? He can’t.

Dismantle the pattern keeping you stuck in difficult relationships, and learn to swim fully in your feminine energy—and in the love you truly want—on Siren Island.

Learn more about Siren Island here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/

Love, Rori