Nobody Puts Baby in a Corner: The Real Love Lessons Behind Dirty Dancing (1987)

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Welcome to Rom-Com Rescue—where we break down the best (and most questionable) love lessons from your favorite romantic comedies.

Our 80s Series (Big Hair, Bigger Feelings) continues and this week, we’re diving into the sweaty, sultry, dance-heavy world of Dirty Dancing (1987), starring Patrick Swayze and Jennifer Grey. It’s adult summer camp meets coming-of-age meets… wait, is this even a rom-com?

In this no-holds-barred episode, Dr. Izzy (Team Nostalgia) and Kira (Team Harsh Truths) debate:

• Was this true love or just Baby’s first crush/sexual awakening?
• Is Johnny Castle actually romantic—or just emotionally dysregulated?
• What’s the real takeaway from the abortion subplot, class dynamics, and power imbalances?
• And does grinding in the woods count as character development?

Expect giggles, gasps, and group therapy vibes as we talk sexual awakenings, bad boy tropes, and whether this iconic film deserves all the love it still gets.

💬 Topics Covered:

• Baby's identity, idealism, and fixer tendencies
• Johnny Castle's hot body... and red flags
• Power imbalances, age gaps, and gender roles in 80s rom-coms
• Abortion, classism, and privilege wrapped in a nostalgic dance movie
• Whether they'd actually make it in real life (spoiler: probably not)
• Iconic lines, fun trivia, and hot takes galore
• The real difference between love and infatuation

📌 Movie Details:
🎬 Dirty Dancing (1987)
🎭 Starring: Patrick Swayze, Jennifer Grey, Cynthia Rhodes, Jerry Orbach
📺 Currently streaming: Available to rent on Amazon Prime; sometimes free on Hulu

💡 Love Lessons (Healthy & Not-So-Much):
✔ The myth that love can "save" someone
✔ Rescuing people ≠ real intimacy
✔ How first loves can blur the line between desire and connection
✔ The importance of emotional regulation and self-worth
❌ Power imbalances and class divides in relationships
❌ Red flags ≠ romance
❌ Punching car windows is NOT hot. (Okay, maybe just a little...)

🎤 About Your Hosts:
Kira Sabin is a healthy dating educator, certified coach, and positive psychology practitioner.
Dr. Isabel Morley is a licensed clinical psychologist and EFT-certified couples therapist.

Together, they help you laugh, learn, and rewire your rom-com brain so you can create your actual happily ever after.

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📺 Next Week:
We’re rewinding to Some Kind of Wonderful (1987) with Mary Stuart Masterson, Eric Stoltz, and Lea Thompson. Stream it on Pluto for free and get ready to swoon… or scream.

💃 And remember...
We've had the time of our life.
(And we never felt this way before.)

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