Being a victim is a choice. Yes, I know, things go wrong, and it's not always your fault.
It still doesn't matter. Figure out the next best decision to make from here and move on. Learn the lesson and grow.
By the way, understanding what caused a situation and blaming are two different things. One, you are trying to figure out how to prevent a similar situation in the future. The other, you just want to know who to whine about.
No excuses!
Kevin Brewer
Rise Again From The Struggle