Your issues aren't because of your mom or dad.
You just refuse to be accountable for the fact that you choose bad habits as well.
And to be clear, I'm not telling you this to shit on my dad. I don't need nor want your pity or sorrow. My point is simply to let you know that I know what's possible because I chose a different path when I had every possible built-in excuse there was.
You're an adult. You get to make your own choices.
Stop using your history as an excuse. Use it as a learning tool for the way you want to live your life going forward. It's knowledge, not a destiny.
No excuses!
Kevin Brewer
Rise Again From The Struggle