People follow energy.
If you think you're the leader and your energy isn't being matched... you might not be the leader of the group.
Learning to stay calm under pressure will bring an aura about you that others will want to follow and match. If you are calm and believe in the actions, those people will eventually do the same.
If you're chaotic and there's not a true leader in the group, though, the group will always be in chaos.
No excuses!
Kevin Brewer
Rise Again From The Struggle