Remix your Marriage Podcast
Sharing our dysfunctional story of relationship, young parenthood and a broken marriage that all started in 1989, to a new incredible marriage. In hopes to help other couples not make the same mistakes.
We will have open and honest conversations about our ups and downs, our bad decisions and how we learned to get through all the Messiness! Marriage is tough but it is also amazing if you do it right!
Hang in there and give us a chance to Remix Your Marriage!
- Update frequency
- every 16 days
- Average duration
- 34 minutes
- Episodes
- 18
- Years Active
- 2023 - 2024
EP16 - Its a Girl! (Part 2): How one life-altering discovery almost destroyed what we worked so hard to rebuild
In this episode we talk about finding out how close Brittany was to us throughout her childhood and teenage years. And we crossed paths with her mother numerous times and she never said…
EP15 - Its a Girl! (Part 1): How one life-altering discovery almost destroyed what we worked so hard to rebuild
December 2nd(or 1st), 1989—a day etched in memory, not just for us, but now for all who tune in. We are recording this episode on our 35th anniversary of when we knew we liked each oth…
EP14 - If only SHE knew: Things a Husband wishes his wife knew about him. His thoughts, emotions and insecurities.
On this episode of "Remix Your Marriage", we reflect on key moments that have shaped our understanding of marital expectations and intimacy. Influential conversations, like one with Bec…
EP13 - If only He knew: Things you wish your husband understood about you. Husbands listen, trust me!
Today we talk about Gary Smalley's "If Only He Knew" the book that helped save our marriage! In this episode we uncover how this book reshaped Lyndan's perspective on his wife and women…
EP12 - How to Fight the right way: Words can do long lasting damage. What we do, what we avoid, oh, and make up Sex!
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of an argument, wondering if there's a better way to communicate? Tune into this episode of Remix Your Marriage, where we share our personal j…
EP11- Rebuilding our Marriage felt undoable: Loving, L.A., Lemon tree and Lil tiny shorts, its been a journey!
Rebuilding trust after infidelity is tough, but it's one we faced head-on. Join us as we recount our personal experiences and share the powerful lessons we've learned along the way. You…
EP10 - Sex after infidelity: Getting past the pain and images in my head. Working around headaches, stomach issues & how Scheduling Sex is Sexy!
Seventeen years ago, the fabric of our marriage was torn by an act of infidelity. Through this podcast, we share the intimate and often unspoken journey of rekindling the sexual and emo…
EP9 - Keeping your circle tight: We brought too many friends and family into our marriage. Its really none of their business
In this episode we talk about how we allowed our circle to be to big. Letting in to many friends and family. We learned quickly the importance of keeping that circle tight with friends …
Ignite Your Marriage 10 Day Challenge: Games, Romance, love and some laughs (link in the show notes) Plus a FREE giveaway!
This is the 10 Challenge that has changed marriages! One of our favorite things to do together with our Remix Your Marriage community!
10 Days of fun things to do together, for each othe…
EP8 - The beginning of a new Marriage: Reconnecting, communicating, setting boundaries and having fun again
In this episode we talk about reconnecting and trust-building after infidelity, where we don't just share our story, but also the essential steps we took to revive the love that once s…
EP7 - Joy and Pain: The steps we took to move forward. It was messy, we fought, loved, hated and learned how to reconnect
We really did not like each other a lot during this process. I (Lyndan) had no right to be angry or mean which made me just want to give up. I am not the victim and I was struggling not…
EP6 - The death of a marriage (part 2): As Vanessa deals with the pain of infidelity and her own insecurities, she begins to seek validation from other men
In this episode Vanessa shares her feelings of being lost and feeling like she had nothing. Feeling like she was just a mom and Lyndan's wife. As she is trying to heal she begins to see…
EP5 - The death of a marriage (part 1): Lyndan's horrible secret is found out by his Pastor. He is forced to tell Vanessa the truth.
As we, Lyndan and Vanessa, lay bare the rawest edges of our marriage, we confront the shadows of infidelity and the long, often bumpy road to healing. Our heartfelt discussion offers a …
EP4 - Our Marriage Expectations verses reality. This almost destroyed us.
In this episode Lyndan and Vanessa discuss the unreasonable expectations they had for one another when they first got married. Lyndan expected non stop passion in the bedroom, Vanessa e…
EP3 - A Teenage Love: Fights, break-ups and heartbreak, we brought all of that junk into our Marriage
As you learn more about our back story you will understand why we made so many bad decisions as teenagers that we carried into our marriage. In this episode we talk about the beginning …
EP2 - The Quiet Room, it was mental torture for kids: Lyndan's Story
Ever wondered how childhood experiences can shape your relationships and self-perception? Get ready to be part of an enriching conversation, as we, Vanessa and Lyndan, uncover the profo…
EP1 - Brown Skin Girl, Vanessa's Story
On today's first episode, Vanessa shares part of her childhood story . The pain of growing up with parents that fought daily, losing her father at 13 and how that effected her teenage …
Remix Your Marriage: Who the heck are we?
Have you ever felt like you were just "playing house" in your marriage? Like you were fumbling in the dark, trying to figure out what it meant to be a spouse, a parent, and an adult all…