The Boundary is the Lesson

The Boundary is the Lesson: You can't ride every story home, and that's not a failure.

What if the bravest thing you could do with a horse is stand still beside it?

In this week's episode, I explore what happens when we stop trying to perform our way into belonging — with horses, with others, with ourselves — and start listening instead.

You'll hear stories from the farm: a child who built a horse from a pool noodle, a twelve-year-old who chose presence over progress, and teenagers who asked me to write about boundaries instead of boys.

This VoiceOver, adapted from the Stable Roots blog, unpacks how groundwork — with horses and with ourselves — isn't a fallback. It's a way forward.

Inside:

• Why boundaries aren't barricades

• What a horse's gaze can teach us about ego and projection

• How kids are modeling a more connected way to lead

• And why the field — not the saddle — is where the work begins

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Love, Kim