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Relationships Made Easy

The research says the key to a happy life is happy relationships. But how exactly do you make your relationships better? That’s what this show is all about.

 

I’m Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and (according to my kids) the bossy Jewish mom you didn’t know you needed. With decades of experience and millions of listeners in over 180 countries, I give you the no-fluff, research-backed strategies to make all your relationships better: with your partner, your family, your friends, and (most importantly) yourself.

 

Every week on the Relationships Made Easy podcast, I mix straight talk, humor, and science to help you communicate effectively, set healthy boundaries, and stop second-guessing yourself. Because great relationships aren’t built in a day. Great relationships are built daily.


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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
44 minutes
Episodes
357
Years Active
2018 - 2025
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348. Love Goggles: Why You Ignore Red Flags When You’re Falling for Someone

348. Love Goggles: Why You Ignore Red Flags When You’re Falling for Someone

Ever wonder why love makes you overlook the obvious red flags? 🛑 Your brain is literally on a chemical high. In this episode, Dr. Abby Medcalf reveals the neuroscience of why love is blind, how dopam…

00:49:45  |   Mon 01 Sep 2025
347. When Your Partner Takes Other People’s Side (And What to Do About It)

347. When Your Partner Takes Other People’s Side (And What to Do About It)

Learn why your partner defends others instead of validating you, why it hurts so much, how this breaks the goodwill pillar of trust, and exactly how to change this dynamic with actionable scripts and…

00:42:10  |   Mon 25 Aug 2025
346. Why You Stay: The Brain Science of Trauma Bonding and How to Break Free

346. Why You Stay: The Brain Science of Trauma Bonding and How to Break Free

You know the relationship isn’t healthy. Your friends see it. You feel it. So why can’t you let go?

 

Maybe you’ve said something like:

  • "They’re not perfect, but we have a deep connection."
  • "When it’s go…
00:43:13  |   Mon 18 Aug 2025
345. Forgiveness Is a One-Person Job: Why You Don’t Need Them to Feel Better

345. Forgiveness Is a One-Person Job: Why You Don’t Need Them to Feel Better

We’re taught that forgiveness is a mutual thing. That it’s about making amends, talking it through, hugging it out. But the truth, the freeing and maybe painful truth, is that forgiveness isn’t a two…

00:33:37  |   Mon 11 Aug 2025
Season 8 Sneak Peek: New Format, Big News, and How to Get Involved

Season 8 Sneak Peek: New Format, Big News, and How to Get Involved

In this teaser for Season 8, Abby shares a quick update on what’s changing and what’s staying the same on the Relationships Made Easy podcast. You’ll hear about the exciting launch of her second podc…

00:13:31  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
344. Why Is Dating So Damn Hard Right Now? (And How to Spot Real Emotional Availability)

344. Why Is Dating So Damn Hard Right Now? (And How to Spot Real Emotional Availability)

If you’ve been wondering whether dating is harder than it used to be, I’m here to tell you: yes. You’re not imagining things. It’s not just that you’re older, pickier, or doomed to attract commitment…

00:39:08  |   Mon 21 Jul 2025
343. Micro-Gaslighting: The Tiny Cuts That Undermine You

343. Micro-Gaslighting: The Tiny Cuts That Undermine You

You know those moments that make you pause and think, “Wait, am I being ridiculous right now?” You feel off, but you can’t quite explain why. The conversation wasn’t overtly mean. You weren’t screame…

00:32:10  |   Mon 14 Jul 2025
342. You Don’t Have to Earn It: Breaking Free from Transactional Self-Worth

342. You Don’t Have to Earn It: Breaking Free from Transactional Self-Worth

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I doing enough?” at work, in your relationships, as a parent, or just as a person, you’re not alone. So many of my clients feel like they have to prove their value throug…

00:39:50  |   Mon 07 Jul 2025
341. When Your Partner Is Being Evasive, Withholding Information, or Lying: A Guide to Navigating Relationship Deception

341. When Your Partner Is Being Evasive, Withholding Information, or Lying: A Guide to Navigating Relationship Deception

Nothing makes your stomach drop quite like that moment when you realize your partner isn’t telling you the truth. Whether it's an outright lie, a carefully omitted detail, or that uneasy feeling that…

00:49:49  |   Mon 30 Jun 2025
340. Judgment Detox: 8 Steps to Be Less Critical and More Connected

340. Judgment Detox: 8 Steps to Be Less Critical and More Connected

While judgment can be a natural human response, being judgmental can erode your relationships and seriously hinder your personal growth. Yes, judgment feels good at first. It gives you a hit of certa…

00:53:47  |   Mon 23 Jun 2025
339. Why You Keep Proving Yourself Right (Even When You're Miserable): The Psychology of Confirmation Bias and Defense Mechanisms

339. Why You Keep Proving Yourself Right (Even When You're Miserable): The Psychology of Confirmation Bias and Defense Mechanisms

You break up with someone and suddenly, every memory is framed as proof that they never really cared. You get into an argument with your mom, and you leave convinced, once again, that she just doesn’…

00:46:40  |   Mon 16 Jun 2025
338. How to Stop Taking It Personally: 5 Steps to Listen Without Getting Defensive

338. How to Stop Taking It Personally: 5 Steps to Listen Without Getting Defensive

It’s not hard to stay calm and open when someone is complimenting your outfit or thanking you for dinner. But when they’re disappointed in you? Hurt by something you said? Frustrated by a mistake you…

00:44:58  |   Mon 09 Jun 2025
337. Why We’re So Afraid to Be Alone (and the Five Steps to Feel at Ease with Yourself)

337. Why We’re So Afraid to Be Alone (and the Five Steps to Feel at Ease with Yourself)

We talk a lot about loneliness these days, but we don’t talk enough about why being alone triggers such deep fear for so many of us. Is it just about relationships? Or is there something deeper, hard…

00:59:56  |   Mon 02 Jun 2025
336. Is Food Addiction Real? Here’s the Truth (and 5 Steps to Healing)

336. Is Food Addiction Real? Here’s the Truth (and 5 Steps to Healing)

Let’s start with a hard truth wrapped in a soft blanket: Yes, food addiction is real, and if you’re struggling with it, you’re not broken, lazy, or weak. You’re human. You’re living in a world where …

00:44:06  |   Mon 26 May 2025
335. Are You a Narcissist and Don’t Know It? The Truth About Healthy Selfishness vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder

335. Are You a Narcissist and Don’t Know It? The Truth About Healthy Selfishness vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder

“I’m just putting myself first, is that narcissistic?” “Am I being selfish or setting a boundary?” “I think I might be a narcissist.” Sound familiar? If you’ve asked yourself any of these questions, …

00:38:07  |   Mon 19 May 2025
334. Dopamine Detoxing is a Scam (But You Should Still Do It)

334. Dopamine Detoxing is a Scam (But You Should Still Do It)

In today's fast-paced digital world, the concept of "dopamine detoxing" has gained traction as a method to reset our brains from constant stimulation. But what exactly is dopamine detoxing, and does …

01:04:47  |   Mon 12 May 2025
333. Why You (or Your Partner) Struggle to Talk About Feelings: Understanding Alexithymia

333. Why You (or Your Partner) Struggle to Talk About Feelings: Understanding Alexithymia

If you’ve ever felt like your partner shuts down when you ask, “How are you feeling?” or you find yourself saying, “I don’t know what I’m feeling; I just feel off,” you might be dealing with somethin…

00:50:33  |   Mon 05 May 2025
332. Why We Eat Our Feelings: Understanding and Overcoming Emotional Eating

332. Why We Eat Our Feelings: Understanding and Overcoming Emotional Eating

Ever found yourself knee-deep in a pint of ice cream after a stressful day, convincing yourself that this is "self-care"? (Or is that just me?). Emotional eating is a common (yet sneaky) coping mecha…

00:53:46  |   Mon 28 Apr 2025
331. A New Mindset for Navigating Neurodiverse Relationships

331. A New Mindset for Navigating Neurodiverse Relationships

If you’re in a relationship where one or both partners are on the autism spectrum, you’ve probably noticed that the usual relationship advice doesn’t quite work for you. You might have read articles,…

00:37:35  |   Mon 21 Apr 2025
330. Codependency and Boundary Red Flags When Dating

330. Codependency and Boundary Red Flags When Dating

Dating should be exciting, filled with curiosity, fun, and a growing sense of connection. But if you’ve struggled with boundaries in the past or found yourself repeatedly in relationships that drain …

00:56:47  |   Mon 14 Apr 2025
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