If there's abuse of any form towards anyone you should always seek help for it. Understand abuse can come in different forms other than physical (mental, verbal, physical, emotional, etc). Keeping abuse secret is never a good thing. Otherwise, learn to keep your business between you and your significant other. Too many people mess up their relationships by running their mouths! If you're not happy, work on it. However, if you're staying in the relationship, keep your business out of the streets. Telling your friends, family, etc is putting it in the streets. Many people's agendas and motives are different than yours.
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