If you want change in your life, it is you who must initiate change. The only way it can happenn is by doing that inner work, because all of the mess inside is causing dysfunction in your outside world. Most people hold on to the negative aspects of their experiences, which forms their negative mindsets. If you don't progress you remain mentally stuck. Therefore, there's no mental maturity, which is why people continue to make bad choices and decisions.
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