It doesn't matter who the abuser is or was! Most people will never get an apology, that's why you must forgive them in your heart, and then forgive yourself for allowing hurt and pain to cause you to lead a dysfunctional life. Forgiveness is for you and your peace so that you can let go and move on!
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