Stop believing your the reason they cheated. They cheated because it's exactly what a cheater will do. A cheater will cheat because of their own inner issues, which caused the mindsets they have and their lack and their many insecurities. It's the characteristics of unhealed people. They are master manipulators and therefore, will make you feel that you're the problem, because they don't understand that they (him or her), are the problem. Love yourself enough to not allow anyone who is unworthy of you, into your life. If you let someone cheat on you, you're a problem too, and you're creating the monster in your life. People who make these choices as the cheater or the one who allows the cheater in their lives, are individuals who have unresolved internal issues. When a person doesn't love self, it affects their lives, in many ways.
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