Most people lose self, while focused on their significant others even when they're being treated like crap. Whatever you allow from your significant other is exactly what you'll get. When you're angry and hurt about it, look at the person staring back at you in the mirror. It falls on you. If you take it, they will give it. When you heal from your pain, you become a better person, one who loves his or herself. When you love yourself, you will not take unnecessary crap from your significant other or anyone else.
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