Many people have the misconception that their significant others can fulfill them. They may be able to fill some of your wants, desires, and needs, in a tangible way (money, possessions, etc., but they can't ever fulfill you because it requires dealing with those things they can't see. Only you can do that for yourself. It is you who must heal your inner man or woman.
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