Give your significant other the attention they need or they may end up getting it somewhere else. That shouldn't be your concern. Your concern should be at all times, doing the right thing for your significant. Don't open the door to unnecessary problems. Stop getting into relationships acting like you don't have to work to keep it growing. If you don't you will have to deal with the consequences.
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