People do things, but then make excuses for why they did what they chose to do. Many people become comfortable in their lies and excuses until it actually ends up a way of life. They take the drama into the lives of those who allow and accept it. They become numb to their wrong choices and decisions, not caring about the consequences they know they'll face.
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