It doesn't matter the race, the person, the skin color, etc if you don't have yourself together all of your drama you will take into your relationship/s. You will also allow and accept the drama from those you are in relationships with. Until a person deals with their inner issues, which are those things affecting their mindsets; those issues they won't face, don't face, or they try to hide; they'll never truly be able to love self and will always have problems when it comes to loving someone else.
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