If individuals feel a need to fight one another they really don't need to be together until they work on self. You should never allow anyone to get you to a point where you lay hands on them. You're responsible for your actions not the other person. You should never allow anyone to lay hands on you! This is a very volatile and unhealthy relationship.
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