12 Unhelpful Things People Will Say About Your Divorce (And How to Respond)

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Going through a divorce is hard enough without the added weight of unsolicited opinions, judgment, and well-meaning (but completely unhelpful) advice. Whether it's "Everything happens for a reason" or "Aren't you worried you'll regret this?"—these comments can be invalidating, dismissive, hurtful and sometimes even harmful.

In this episode, I share 12 of the most unhelpful things people say during divorce—and more importantly, how to respond to them.

Tune in to hear:

❥ Why certain phrases can feel dismissive or triggering, even when they come from a place of love
 ❥ How these comments can undermine your confidence and decision-making process
 ❥ Calm, strategic ways to respond
 ❥ Reminders that your divorce is your story, and no one else gets to judge your choices.

💬 What’s the most unhelpful thing someone has said to you about your divorce? Or… let’s flip it—what’s the most supportive and helpful thing someone has said to you? Send me a DM or share in the comments!

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Sallyanne Hartnell - Divorce Coach & Strategist

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