Take Responsibility for Your Life - How to Stop Being a Victim

Here is your part 2 from how to know you struggle with victim mentality to knowing what to do to stop being a victim. Living life with a victim mentality will only trap you in the life you have now & prevent any growth or change.

Show Notes:
It’s all you, friend. It’s all you to make those decisions & move forward with those changes. You have to be the one that makes that decision and moves forward with creating change in your life without anyone else making you do it or forcing you to do it with manipulation or threats or anything. It has to be you.

We have to take responsibility for our own lives. We cannot wait on other people to do the work for us or force us to do anything or complain until someone else does it or even blame someone else for not doing it for us. No, we have to experience the struggles and the failures and the mistakes and realize that it doesn’t always need to be about us. 

Plus, victim mentality has such a great effect on the relationships in our lives with the complaining, blaming & neediness that comes with this mindset. People in our lives aren’t going to stick through all of that for too long or with a ton of dedication because it can become very wearing on people to deal with all that. Victim mentality will also keep you where you are, pretending to be helpless and not achieving your goals or moving forward in life. And I know that’s not where anyone wants to be.

We need to look inward and recognize the trauma & the pain, then figure out our healing journey so we can release ourselves from these mindsets and behaviors. But understand that none of this can happen if you haven’t determined if victim mentality is a struggle of yours and how much. Once you do that, you can move forward to healing & growth.

This episode is a continuation and a part 2 of the episode right before this that speaks on how to know if you are struggling with victim mentality. So if you aren’t sure if that is something you are doing or not, you can listen to that episode first and it will help you determine that. 

Today we are going to talk about how to stop having a victim mentality & take responsibility for our lives & be accountable in what we need to do:

1. Notice the Role You Play 
2. Take Ownership of Your Wants & Needs 
3. Identify Your Limiting Beliefs
4. Deal With Your Anger 
5. Practice Gratitude
6. Stop Blaming & Consider Your Part
7. Realize You Are in Control of Your Life 

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