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4,000 Houses! Finding Happiness and Freedom with Brad Chandler

Author
RealDealCrew | Jack Hoss
Published
Thu 28 Sep 2023
Episode Link
https://realdealchat.com/episode/4-000-houses-finding-happiness-and-freedom-with-brad-chandler

Brad Chandler is a devoted father who was determined to find help for his son's anxiety. In his quest for answers, Brad found himself on a life-changing Zoom call with a woman recommended by a friend. Within just five minutes, she identified a tick in Brad's behavior, pointing out that he blinked excessively when discussing his childhood. This astute observation led to a revelation: Brad might have unresolved childhood trauma that was contributing to his son's anxiety.

Eager to do whatever it took to help his son, Brad eagerly accepted an invitation to travel to Park City and work with Mike's Navy Seal husband and the woman he had connected with. Little did he know that a mere three-hour session with the Navy Seal would transform every aspect of his life.

During their time together, Brad and the Navy Seal delved into events from Brad's childhood that had caused him immense stress and a sense of helplessness. The experience allowed Brad to realize that he had been carrying unresolved issues from his past, which in turn affected his son's anxiety.

Motivated by the newfound understanding, Brad dedicated himself to healing and gaining control over his life. This transformative journey not only empowered Brad to become the rock his son needed but also inspired him to help others facing similar challenges.

Today, Brad Chandler is a beacon of hope for families dealing with anxiety and unresolved trauma. Through his own experiences and the knowledge gained from his transformational session, he works tirelessly to support and guide individuals towards healing and resilience. Brad's story serves as a testament to the power of confronting and overcoming our past, ultimately leading to a brighter future for ourselves and our loved ones.

Connect with Brad Chandler: https://www.bradchandler.com/

Primary Topics Covered:

1. Introduction to the Speaker's Journey

  • How the speaker got into flipping houses
  • Number of houses bought and years in business
  • Initial motivations for making money and proving worth

2. Importance of Self-Love and Self-Worth

  • Recommendation to take a self-love quiz
  • Actions to take if self-love score is low
  • Emphasizing the role of self-love in happiness and fulfillment
  • Opportunity for a new life

3. Childhood Stories and Negative Self-Perception

  • Coping mechanisms and their impact on adulthood
  • Speaker's personal experiences of failed marriages and mistakes
  • Financial losses and societal issues mentioned

4. Dispelling Misconceptions about Hypnosis

  • Differentiating stage hypnosis from therapeutic hypnosis
  • Explanation of hypnosis as a relaxed state and its impact on the subconscious
  • Importance of the subconscious mind in behavior

5. Four Questions for Self-Worth and Self-Esteem

  • Detailed exploration of the four questions
  • Transformation potential and their relevance to prison population

6. Self-Love as a Solution for Personal and Societal Problems

  • Speaker's life's work in helping people find self-love
  • Linking lack of self-love to global issues
  • Importance of awareness and personal change

7. Impact of Parenting and Changing Behaviors

  • Self-reflection on imperfect parenting and blame
  • Changing behaviors through self-love, using "shitty marriage" as an example

8. Addressing Root Thinking Issues

  • Speaker's work with struggling CEOs
  • Identifying work addiction and its connection to self-worth
  • Impact of mentors and their insights on addiction

9. Speaker's Work in Real Estate

  • Flip and wholesales statistics from the previous year
  • Limited involvement in the business
  • New perspective on dealing with sellers

10. Personal Transformation and Priorities

  • Quitting drinking and seeking deeper connections
  • Avoiding gossip and complaints
  • Identifying self-confidence issues in others
  • Challenging traditional beliefs about marriage

11. Finding Happiness, Positive Change, and Perspective

  • Importance of not accepting suffering
  • Positive changes in speaker's life
  • Interpreting events and changing perspectives

12. Personal Journey to Resolving Childhood Trauma

  • Seeking help for son's anxiety
  • Zoom call recommendation and Navy Seal session
  • The impact of childhood trauma on relationships

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