A Word for My LGBTQ Friends—And My Own Spiritual Coming Out

🎙️ A Word for My LGBTQ Friends—And My Own Spiritual Coming Out

Subtitle: Honest Reflections and an Apology

Episode Summary

In this bonus episode, James Kiger shares a deeply personal reflection: his own spiritual coming out and the ways it’s helped him understand, in a small but real way, the journey of his LGBTQ friends.

As we honor Pride Month, James opens up about the homophobia he grew up with—how it shaped his early beliefs and even how he once caused harm to others. He doesn’t shy away from naming the silence, the shame, and the weight of religious fear that still haunts so many people today.

He also shares what he’s learning: that love is bigger than fear, and that no one should ever have to apologize for who they are or how they love. Whether you’re questioning, healing, or finally reclaiming your truth, you’re not alone—and you’re already enough.

Key Takeaways

✅ Owning our harm: Healing starts with honesty about how we’ve hurt others and ourselves.

✅ No apologies for who you are: Your existence, your love, and your truth need no defense.

✅ Love is bigger than dogma: Real love isn’t conditional—it’s freeing and expansive.

✅ Spiritual growth means listening: We grow when we dare to see and support others in their wholeness.

✅ You’re not alone: There’s a bigger story beyond shame and silence.

Quotes from the Episode

“I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this: you don’t have to apologize for who you are or how you love.”

“Love is bigger than fear. And you’re already whole—no matter what anyone says.”

“Silence isn’t safety. Healing starts when we’re willing to speak and willing to listen.”

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Final Thought

This episode isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about owning what’s real—about seeing each other and seeing ourselves with compassion. As we celebrate Pride Month, remember: if you’re questioning, if you’re healing, or if you’re simply trying to live a little more free, know this—love has room for all of you. And you are already enough.