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Relationship Anarchy Changed How I Love ft. Pat

Author
Queer Collective
Published
Thu 03 Jul 2025
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Monogamy is optional. Hierarchies are fake. And ‘the one’ doesn't exist? We're diving headfirst into the world of Relationship Anarchy with queer academic and certified hottie Pat. From dismantling the dating rulebook to navigating multiple partners without losing your mind, this episode unpacks radical love, intimacy without ownership, and why friendship might just be the new forever.


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00:00 Intro

01:32 What is relationship anarchy?

10:50 How do you get into RA?

20:34 Positive impact of RA

27:20 Why choose RA?

41:45 Can it get more radical?

53:28 Building your own RA model

01:06:13 Dating challenges within RA

01:12:26 Creating clarity with multiple partners

01:19:06 Negotiating hierarchies

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