No Fats, No Femmes, No Asians: The Grindr Industrial Complex ft. Humza and Darynel

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Gay dating can be messy. From hookup culture and emotional avoidance to Grindr’s racial hierarchy, we’re diving into the chaos with guests Darynel Weekly and Mango Lassi. We’re unpacking the trauma, the body standards, the “no fats no femmes,” and giving you tools to heal, find real connection, and maybe even enjoy the apps without losing your soul.

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00:00 Intro

00:02:57 First time with a man

00:07:46 History of hookup culture

00:12:11 DL gays

00:19:57 Seeking validation in sex

00:28:21 Finding long term love

00:36:10 Is the gay community racist?

00:48:48 fetishization in gay community

00:54:46 Is it a personal preference?

01:04:22 Gay body standards

01:07:28 Best advice for dating