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How to Hook Up With Your Friends ft. Syd And Zhané

Author
Queer Collective
Published
Thu 28 Aug 2025
Episode Link
https://bleav.com/shows/queer-collective-podcast/episodes/should-you-hook-up-with-your-friends-lesbian-chaos-theory-ft-syd-and-zhane/

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Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friendship line. With Zhané and Syd, we talk jealousy, intimacy, ENM vs monogamy, and every messy “oops, I made out with my bestie” scenario. Gay disasters, incoming.


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00:00 intro

01:44 Have you hooked up with friends?

09:20 Pros and cons of hooking up

25:39 What about the friendship?

40:10 Is it inevitable?

49:15 Making the first move

57:56 Intoxicated consent

01:04:18 Keeping a platonic vibe after

01:10:38 How to avoid problems

01:16:52 Role playing scenarios

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