We live in a highly unfocused and easily distracted society. A few statistics that prove this:
- Distracted driving is the number 1 cause of car accidents in the U.S.
- Distractions cost U.S. companies $650 billion per year on average.
- The average internet user spends 5 years and 4 months of their life on social networks.
So, how do we become more focused? The Bible has a lot to say about this:
- Keep God and His kingdom first (Matthew 6:33).
- Fix or set your thoughts on Godly things (Phillippians 4:8, Colossians 3:2, Hebrew 3:1).
- Take every thought captive that goes against what we know about God (2 Corinthians 10:5).
Focus is just as much about what we choose not to pay attention to as it is what we do pay attention to.
- It’s difficult to remove a negative habit without adding a new one in its place, and vice versa.
- For example, it’s hard to give up foods that are bad for you without having a plan to eat healthier foods instead.
- There are only so many hours in a day. When you choose to focus more on one area of your life, you’re choosing to focus less on another area by default.
5 areas where you need focus most:
- Faith: Are you pursuing God and maintaining a strong relationship with Him?
- Health: Do you feel healthy and strong most of the time?
- Relationships: What are your core values? Are you all going the same direction?
- Career: Are you working toward a destination or just trying to get to payday?
- Money: What financial goals do you have?
What I’m focused on right now:
- My walk with God: Am I seeking Him and His purpose for my life?
- My family: Loving my husband and children well (5 Love Languages)
- My health: Adding more vegetables to my diet, getting up earlier and exercising
- My career: Writing projects and the Purpose Without Apology podcast
Action Steps:
- Choose one area of your life that needs more of your attention, and commit to focusing on that area for the next 30 days.
- Choose one aspect of your life that needs less attention from you, and spend less time on it over the next 30 days.
Resources:
- https://www.businessinsider.com/millionaire-study-wealth-factors-confidence-focus-2019-1
- https://www.inc.com/jeff-haden/the-6-high-performance-habits-only-the-most-extrao.html
- https://stopad.io/blog/interrupted-work-statistics