Why You Still Feel Like a Peer - Even When You're the Boss

If you've ever found yourself holding back in meetings, hesitating before giving feedback, or wondering why praise feels more awkward than affirming… this episode is for you.

Today, we're talking about the quiet identity split that happens when you're promoted from within and suddenly you're not “one of the team” anymore. You're their leader. And even though your title has changed, your nervous system might not have gotten the memo.

We explore:

• Why being seen in your authority can feel uncomfortable (even threatening)
• The subconscious trade-off between connection and command
• How ancient wiring still influences your leadership presence
• What it really takes to feel safe and steady in your new role

This is not a “fix yourself” conversation. It’s a call to resonance. A chance to pause and ask: What would it feel like to belong without blending? To lead without the inner split?

If you’ve ever felt the tug-of-war between visibility and safety, this episode will land.

🎧 Listen now and start coming home to the leader you already are.

 Resources + Links:

• Learn more about Neuro-Identity Coaching with Tracy: https://www.tracytutty.co.nz/WorkWithTracy
• Connect on Instagram: @tracyctutty
• For episode transcripts, visit: https://projectjoyful.com/podcasts/