Tennis Court: Why You're Playing a Borderline Personality Game You Never Signed Up For

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You didn’t choose this match—but you’re in it.

In this episode, Enrique breaks down how Peter Fonagy’s groundbreaking model of borderline personality disorder (BPD) explains the emotional chaos many people experience daily—without ever getting diagnosed. From the collapse of mentalization to Lateral Plate Theory, we explore how shame, narcissistic defense, abandonment panic, and trauma structure a psychological “tennis match” between guilt and grandiosity. If you've ever sent the text, needed closure from your own rejection, or weaponized intimacy out of fear—you've stepped on this court. Most of us are playing. 

This episode is your way out.
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