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Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40

Love between humans is not easy, and most of us never had great examples or education about emotions, communication, sex, or what keeps love alive. When you add the challenges of aging to the mix, love becomes even more complicated. Many people end up settling, or giving up on what they want most.

But you don't have to!

Dating and relationships become easier when you hear people share vulnerably about their struggles, and how they've created more connection and excitement. I bring my 20 years of experience, coaching thousands of people, to help you see what's possible, and how the practice of love makes it possible to have the best love and sex of your life!

Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!
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Relationships Self-Improvement Society & Culture Education Dating Love
Update frequency
every 10 days
Average duration
39 minutes
Episodes
33
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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#33: Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go: Emotional Potty Training for Lasting Love and Better Relationships

#33: Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go: Emotional Potty Training for Lasting Love and Better Relationships

Most of us never got the “emotional potty training” we needed as kids. Instead, we learned to hide, suppress, or ignore our feelings, which often wreaks havoc in our adult love lives. In this Practic…

00:41:06  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
#32: Why Shared Values Aren’t Enough for a Lasting Relationship

#32: Why Shared Values Aren’t Enough for a Lasting Relationship

If you think shared values are the key to making a relationship last, think again. Shana James talks with Nick Brancato, author of Prioritize Us: Unlock Lasting Love with One Simple, Proven Test, abo…

00:34:56  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
#31: How to Stop Repeating Parent Wounds and Create a Conscious Relationship

#31: How to Stop Repeating Parent Wounds and Create a Conscious Relationship

If you’ve ever found yourself replaying childhood wounds in your romantic relationships, this episode explores how parent-child dynamics often show up in love. And how you can break the cycle and cre…

00:47:36  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
#30: Unlearn Childhood Patterns to Build Real Love

#30: Unlearn Childhood Patterns to Build Real Love

The relational patterns you learn in childhood shape your romantic relationships, often without you knowing it. In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences influence adult love — and wha…

00:43:20  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
#29: Relationship Agreements: The Key to a Stronger Partnership

#29: Relationship Agreements: The Key to a Stronger Partnership

A big reason many relationships fall apart is because most couples don't make clear, conscious agreements. In this episode, I talk with Krista and Will VanderVeer (hosts of The Art of We podcast) abo…

00:53:32  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
#28: Anger in Relationships - How to Stay Connected When You're Upset

#28: Anger in Relationships - How to Stay Connected When You're Upset

We talk about the moments when anger builds within us, moments when a partner pulls away in anger, the downward spiral that can ensue, and how to find your way back to connection — even in the heat o…

00:41:34  |   Thu 03 Jul 2025
#27: How to Stay in Love When You Disagree (Even on Big Issues)

#27: How to Stay in Love When You Disagree (Even on Big Issues)

How do you stay in love when you disagree? In any relationship, disagreements are inevitable — but where do you draw the line? Can you love someone whose beliefs or values differ from your own? In th…

00:37:12  |   Thu 26 Jun 2025
#26: Deepening Love Through Perimenopause and Andropause

#26: Deepening Love Through Perimenopause and Andropause

Perimenopause isn’t just challenging for women — it impacts relationships and intimacy in powerful ways. In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, men’s mentor Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz shares how he…

00:38:27  |   Thu 12 Jun 2025
#25: What to Do if You’ve Lost Yourself in a Relationship

#25: What to Do if You’ve Lost Yourself in a Relationship

What do you do when you've lost yourself (or parts of yourself) in love? In this heartfelt conversation Megan Walrod, author of It's Always Been Me, explores how to reclaim your voice, stop giving aw…

00:46:10  |   Thu 05 Jun 2025
#24: Spiritual Intelligence Makes Your Relationship Stronger

#24: Spiritual Intelligence Makes Your Relationship Stronger

On this episode of Practicing Love, we talk about spiritual intelligence, which can make relationships stronger — and hotter.

Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!

 

 

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00:42:08  |   Thu 29 May 2025
#23: A New Era of Sex with Intimacy, Confidence and Men's Sexual Health

#23: A New Era of Sex with Intimacy, Confidence and Men's Sexual Health

Dr. Elliot Justin, a pioneer in men’s sexual health, has developed innovative wearable technology to improve erectile function, sexual fitness, and intimacy. Having tracked over 70,000 erections, he’…

00:46:14  |   Thu 22 May 2025
#22: What Does it Really Take to Satisfy a Woman?

#22: What Does it Really Take to Satisfy a Woman?

What does it really take to satisfy a woman these days? In this conversation with Dr. Alanna Kaivalya, we explore the emotional, spiritual, and relational keys to true feminine fulfillment — and how …

00:44:28  |   Mon 12 May 2025
#21: True Freedom Creates Real Love

#21: True Freedom Creates Real Love

True Freedom is what allows us to have real love and supportive, healthy relationships. But freedom can be confusing when it's seen as an external rather than an internal quest. Today's guest talks a…

00:42:12  |   Thu 01 May 2025
#20: Emotional Intelligence in Relationships = More Love

#20: Emotional Intelligence in Relationships = More Love

One of the keys to healthy, strong, connected relationships is emotional intelligence. Learning to listen and love from a deeper place doesn't come easy to many of us, but it can be learned! An exper…

00:40:40  |   Thu 17 Apr 2025
#19: How to Love Someone - Shaun Emerson

#19: How to Love Someone - Shaun Emerson

Love can feel complicated. When I meet someone who sees the simplicity of love, and really knows how to love someone, I am quick to strike up a conversation to learn more. Whether you want to know wh…

00:31:18  |   Thu 10 Apr 2025
#18: Healthy Independence in Relationships

#18: Healthy Independence in Relationships

Today's Practicing Love and Man Alive podcast guest, Dr. Fred Rabinowitz, talks about how he navigates independence and connection in his relationship.

Find out how to have the best love and sex of y…

00:39:06  |   Thu 27 Mar 2025
#17: Beducated: Sex Education for Adults + Intimacy While Parenting

#17: Beducated: Sex Education for Adults + Intimacy While Parenting

It's not always easy to keep sex and intimacy alive with all the responsibilities we have, and the fact pace of our world. Today, Mariah Freya, of Beducated, talks about sex education for adults, and…

00:36:35  |   Thu 20 Mar 2025
#16: Communicating as a Couple to Feel More Connected

#16: Communicating as a Couple to Feel More Connected

While there are overlaps, communicating as a couple is different from communicating at work or with family. In a couple, in addition to building trust and respect, you have to help someone feel so sa…

00:29:52  |   Thu 13 Mar 2025
#15: The Way to Love a Strong and Independent Woman

#15: The Way to Love a Strong and Independent Woman

Strong and independent women are pretty common these days. If you're a man or woman who loves women, this episode will help you understand how to sidestep intimidation and create an inspiring connect…

00:31:09  |   Thu 27 Feb 2025
#14: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy in Dating and Relationships

#14: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy in Dating and Relationships

It's amazing to be a man who loves and supports women. But beware of going overboard and losing yourself, stepping into the role of the "nice guy." Nice guys tend to get resentful, or become ghosts o…

00:28:23  |   Thu 20 Feb 2025
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