What can you do about it? How can you have interactive conversations in your relationships?
- Set up a specific day and time to have a conversation. You could have a regularly scheduled daily or weekly meeting or time for communication, allotting 30 minutes should be good.
- Pick a time when both are more apt to be refreshed, not rushed, and could have each other’s full attention.
- Treat it like a business meeting with a purpose, timeframe, and next steps.
When you do sit down and talk:
- Remove and block out as many distractions as you can.
- Follow good communication practices.
- Face the person who is talking to you or the person you are speaking to and make eye contact.
- Speak clearly and honestly using kind words; be respectful, watch your tone of voice
- Actively listen
- Think about what is said
- If there is anything you don’t understand, Ask clarifying questions
- Stick to one subject at a time, don’t bring in extra or unrelated topics
- Respond appropriately
- If the conversation is not going well, take a break from the discussion for a few hours or even a day. Then resume when emotions are calm and are minds are open to a respectful conversation.
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