This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like they were the problem.
Hayley and I sat down to talk about something that’s been showing up a lot. You know those pesky stories that “we must be the issue”.
That feeling of constantly questioning yourself, wondering if maybe you’re the reason things didn’t work out. The relationship, the job, the friendship, the dream that didn’t land the way you thought it would.
We talked about how easy it is to carry other people’s pain and blame as our own. How sometimes self-awareness turns into self-blame. How trying to grow and heal can quietly become another way of proving your worth.
But here’s the truth I’m sitting with right now:
It is always both.
This episode isn’t about fixing anything.
It’s just a real and honest conversation. A moment to pause. A reminder that maybe you don’t need to carry it all anymore. Maybe you were never broken to begin with.
If you’re tired of trying so hard to be okay, this one’s for you.
Come sit with us.
You can connect with Haylee in the links below. I know she still has a few more space for her stunning book. She also has the most beautiful offerings and sassy Reels so make sure you go and follow her. She is an absolute creative goddess.
www.instagram.com/hayleeguiver
The Heart is the Bar is now open.
12 weeks to dropping the masks and the stories that are keeping you stuck. The doors Close next week.
If you’ve been craving a way back to yourself, it’s here.
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