The controversial use of the N word by a white pupil, at my friends school, triggered a conversation between 2 black mothers. Why is it when our kids are the victims we can find ourselves being called the 'bully'? This and much more in this episode. Akala addressing the N word you tube clip I hold no copyright to this clip and share for reference of how he addressed the question. https://youtu.be/D_U8XLDFZnY@Parenttalkwithbev