You make bad choices - because - you're human. We all do it. We all have to carry the weight of choices we made that turned out to be not so good. And yet, some of those really bad choices turn out to be a blessing in disguise. If you want to be in control of your life, to own it, to create a life by design, there are lots of things you can do to learn how to make better choices. Like Aristotle said "knowing yourself is true wisdom". I'm actually not 100% sure he said that, but I read on the internet he said it. One thing remains certain; by investing in your personal development, you embark on the journey of true wisdom and a life by design.