142: Use your words to build up instead of tearing down | Ephesians 4:29

As Christians, we are called to build up and lift up others with our speech. Use your words to show love today.

As Jesus followers, we are called to a different standard. A higher standard. In Ephesians 4, Paul lays out some “Instructions for Christian living.” Right in the middle of this passage, he writes, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians 4:29) Sadly, this is not what I see today in the church. Just before I sat down to record this podcast episode, I saw a post in a Facebook group where someone took the time to write out a lengthy poem to directly call out someone else and their writings. Now, I agree that this person’s writings are, well, abstract and in contrast to how many view the Bible. (That’s putting it mildly) However, did this really call for a direct reference with a link and photo of the person they were talking about? Could the writer of the Facebook post not simple speak the truth about the topic and warn others? It takes some serious energy to craft a poem, all with the simple intent of degrading this person. That’s how we should use our gifts? How long does a Facebook post last? Can we please use our passions and gifts for creating real art in the world that will last?

I see something better for the Church. Can we please lift up others in love? Do we have to disagree about everything? Do we have to die on every hill? Is it possible to disagree in love? Is it possible to show respect for a fellow Christian brother or sister? Is it ironic that many who seem so adamant at putting people “in their place” seem to forget verses like Ephesians 4:29. How many times do we think that we need to “speak the truth!” But we forget the same verse ends, “in Love.” Love should lead us. Love should guide us. Let us lift up others with our words.

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