No. 119: Our Favorite Way to Fight (Yes, Really)

Conflict in marriage isn’t just inevitable—it can actually be good… if you know how to handle it. In this episode, we (Nathaniel and Xan) share five unhelpful ways couples commonly navigate conflict (think: avoidance, blame-shifting, and yelling matches) and contrast them with the six simple steps we use when tension arises in our own marriage.

We talk about why a conflict resolution plan might sound stiff—but actually leads to deeper connection, better communication, and much less chaos. 

Whether you’re newly married or ten years in, this episode is packed with practical tools to help you stop fighting at each other and start fighting for your marriage.

One Degree Shift: Create a conflict plan that works for you and your spouse… or at least start the conversation.