OPC 050: Reconnecting With Your Significant Other

Are you ready to stop allowing the victim role to give you an identity? Would you like to be the hero of your own story moving forward?

In this episode of Omar Pinto Coaching, we have Ted, he shares some of the changes he’s been making in his life and the communication struggles he and his wife are having. We also have Leo talk about his fears and internal struggles with a potential new job.

Listen in to learn how to pull yourself out of either of the 3 components of the drama triangle; victim, rescuer, and aggressor, and become the hero of your own story. You will also learn the power of letting go of learning through suffering and embracing learning through love, joy, and happiness.

What You Will Learn in this Episode:

• [0:47] Ted on the efforts he’s been taking to see some changes in his life.
• [5:29] The condescending treatment he receives from his wife, plus the reasons why he might be getting that treatment.
• [19:23] How to communicate your defense mechanism with your partner to avoid feeling inferior.
• [28:22] The actions Ted should start taking to enhance communication between himself and his wife.
• [34:28] Leo explains his worries about the things he’ll have to deal with at his new job as a counselor.
• [37:35] How to put your thoughts and feelings aside and focus on those you care about.
• [42:09] The drama triangle components; victim, rescuer, and aggressor and how to pull yourself out of it.
• [46:20] Asking the universe to grant you the privilege of learning through love, joy, and happiness instead of suffering.
• [53:21] Everyone shares their love and support for Leo as he takes on the next step in his life.

For the show notes and links for this episode go to omarpinto.com/050.

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