Youโre the one who holds it all together. ๐ ๐
Your calendar. Their feelings. The plans no one else remembers.
This episode is a straight shot of clarity for the woman celebrated for reliability and secretly paying for it with her nervous system. ๐ง โก
๐ What Youโll Feel Inside
๐ A clean definition of invisible labor that hits your body + your brain
๐ช Boundaries in action that still feel kind + steady
๐ค Proof you are not dramatic and you are not alone
๐ค Direct From the Room
โI am making a career out of the invisible work.โ โ Jessica Roth (00:27:04)
โI can help you. But I cannot do it allโฆ I held to that.โ โ Jessica Roth (00:24:12โ00:24:27)
โI was at that burnout stage.โ โ Lela Belayneh (00:43:53)
โAnd then of course we counter, because women do not counter enough.โ โ Lela Belayneh (00:44:37)
โI know us as women can relate, where we are able to crank out workflows, make things happen, still show up.โ โ Sade Akinkuotu (00:59:02)
โIf you have ADHD or you are a woman that exists in the world, there is this maskingโฆ this good girl conditioning we all buy into.โ โ Mo Holloman (00:13:06โ00:13:32)
โThis is the labor you doโฆ the things that are unspoken and unsaid. What you have been conditioned to carry.โ โ Mo Holloman (00:17:55โ00:18:26)
โก Why This Matters for Your Energy
Invisible labor = a silent tax.
๐ธ ADHD brains already spend more fuel on emotional regulation + task switching. Add unpaid coordination + care, and youโre overdrafting every week.
๐ชซ Press play to learn how to name it, price it, and stop paying with your body.
๐ Stats & Receipts
๐ Women perform over ยพ of all unpaid care work worldwide
๐ฐ Valued at $10.8 trillion/year if priced at minimum wage
โณ Women spend 2.5โ2.8 more hours/day on unpaid care than men and will still be doing more by 2050
๐ง ADHD women experience 30% more emotional dysregulation, making invisible labor extra draining
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Change starts when we share...send this episode to your friends and communities, talk about it, and put it into practice so invisible labor finally becomes visible.
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