No Matter What - What Chick-Fil-A Taught Us About Sex

WHO is sex for? Male & Female
Matthew 19:4-6

WHEN is sex for: After Marriage
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed undefiled [by immorality or by any sexual sin]; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of God, that you be sanctified [separated and set apart from sin]: that you abstain and back away from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor.

Hebrews 10:22 “Therefore, brothers and sisters, since we have confidence to enter the Most Holy Place by the blood of Jesus, by a new and living way opened for us through the curtain, that is, his body.

WHY did God create sex?:
1 Oneness:
2 Multiplication:
3 Pleasure:

God’s plan for sex is that married heterosexual couples would be joined together through the act of sex, committing their lives to one another in the same way that Christ committed His life to the church, and in the process they would bare and raise a new generation of Christ followers all while fulfilling the sexual needs of one another in the most satisfying kind of way!


What Chick-Fil-A Taught us about sex:
1. They value our pleasure.
1 Corinthians 7:2-6 The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out.

2. They Value Feedback.

3.  They Are Always a Good Decision

4. They aren’t afraid to spice things up

5. They Keep It Clean.
“Watching porn with your spouse is a sin, a revolting sin. Revolting because it blasphemes christ as if he needed sin to help him love his bride, because it celebrates the sickness and sin of the pornography industry, and because it insults the preciousness of a wife’s heart and body by the one above ALL others who should cherish and nourish her soul” - John Piper

6. They are closed on Sundays
Married couples who have a consistent sex life experience more happiness together. They deal with less stress, are in a better mood with fewer mood swings, sleep better, have a higher self-image, have a stronger immune system, experience less emotional pain and have less physical pain in their bodies.

Homework:
1. Married Couples, pick up some Chick-fil-a and have a feedback session with your spouse. Talk about what’s working and what’s not and come up with a plan for how you can have better sex more often! 
2. Married Couples, if physically able, have sex at least 3 times this week!
3. Parents, ask your kids if they have any questions about anything they have heard at school that was confusing to them. Let them know they can always come to you if they have any questions about anything!
4. Singles, if you have sexual immorality in your past or present set aside time to repent, ask God to forgive you, and to help you walk in His will for your life.