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In this episode of "Navigate The Day," we explore the idea that we should focus on our own nature and what we can control in our own lives, rather than being consumed by other people's shortcomings. The quote from Marcus Aurelius's "Meditations," "Another has done me wrong? Let him see to it," reminds us that we don't need to take on the responsibility of fixing someone else's behavior or seeking revenge.

As I reflect on this quote and the journal prompt it inspires, I realize that I often care too much about what others are doing or how they are handling their lives. I get frustrated with coworkers who don't pull their weight or don't share my level of professionalism. However, I now see that it's not within my control to correct or assist in their life circumstances. Instead, I need to focus on myself, my actions, and my thoughts.

By letting go of the burden of feeling the need to solve everyone else's problems, I can accomplish more for myself and give more to those around me. Other people will always have their own perspectives and tendencies, but their problems and tendencies don't need to affect me unless I allow them to. By disregarding the missteps of others and focusing on what I can control, I can be more useful to my friends, family, and society as a whole.

I am reminded of the importance of shutting out external noise and listening to my inner self. I no longer want to let my temper run rampant or allow others to have control over my views or actions. Aurelius is suggesting that we should accept that people have their own proclivities and problems, and it's not our job to solve them. We should focus on what is within our own control and work towards achieving our own goals and desires.

In conclusion, I am inspired to focus on my own personal growth and development, rather than worrying about others' leanings and difficulties. By accepting that others have their own inclinations and complications, and that it's not my responsibility to fix them, I can avoid unnecessary stress and frustration. Ultimately, by changing my energy towards my own personal growth and development, I can achieve a more fulfilling life.

Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!

Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books

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