Finding The Right Mentors

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Welcome back to Navigate the Day, where we explore the teachings of Stoicism and apply them to our lives. Seneca reminds us that although we don't have control over the circumstances of our birth, including our parents, we do have the power to choose whose children we want to be. We can shape our character, values, and actions independently of our familial background. By emphasizing our capacity for personal growth and choice, Seneca encourages us to take responsibility for our own development and strive to become the best version of ourselves.

Today's journal prompt invites us to reflect on the mentors we follow, whether they are alive or dead. While in-person mentors may be limited, it's important to remember that mentorship can come in various forms and from diverse sources. I have found guidance and inspiration from both living individuals and the brilliant minds of the past. Learning from the wisdom of stoic philosophers and contemporary thinkers like Ryan Holiday has been a valuable gift, shaping my perspectives and offering new insights.

It's crucial to recognize that not all mentors are positive influences. In the past, I have chosen mentors who, though famous, were damaged and engaged in destructive behaviors. I emulated their lifestyles and sought validation from others, leading me down a path of trouble. Understanding the impact of my choices, I now seek mentors beyond my immediate surroundings. Living in a town known for its bar scene, I realize the need to distance myself from unhealthy influences and focus on mentors who can provide guidance in areas like personal finance.

Books and social media have become valuable sources of mentorship for me. Recently, I have found guidance from the likes of GaryVee and Grant Cardone. While they may appear different at first glance, they share similarities, including their respect and compassion for others and their desire to help people. I see both of them as stoics in their own right, especially when they discuss happiness and emotional balance. Combining Cardone's views on money as a tool with Gary's indifference towards the opinions of others can greatly benefit me both financially and mentally in the long run.

At times, it feels challenging to find the mentorship I need. I often struggle with the belief that what works for others won't work for me. However, certain messages are universal and can positively impact anyone. Gratitude, for instance, is a practice I aspire to cultivate, and seeking mentorship from individuals well-versed in gratitude can help me in that endeavor. Gary and Grant, with their focus on helping others and their understanding of balance and personal awareness, resonate with me deeply.

The key takeaway from today is that we have the power to choose our mentors. While immediate resources may not always be ideal, we can seek knowledge and guidance from various sources. The knowledge gained from the works of others can be profoundly impactful. It's important to be discerning and filter the outside voices to align with our values. Instead of dwelling on the absence of ideal mentors, I must focus on what is within my control, such as choosing who I listen to and learn from. By continuing to seek wisdom from stoic philosophers and modern professionals, I am equipping myself with the knowledge needed to progress and live a more fulfilling life.

Join me on this journey of seeking mentorship, learning from the wise, and embracing the power of choice as we navigate our path to personal g

Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!

Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books

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