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In this episode of Navigate the Day, we delve into the Stoic philosophy and explore our job as Stoics. Inspired by Marcus Aurelius' words, we learn that our duty is to be virtuous and rational, irrespective of external factors. It is our responsibility to uphold our values, staying true to ourselves and radiating goodness, just like precious gemstones proudly displaying their true colors.

As a practicing Stoic, I understand that my job is to embody moral excellence and strive for rationality in all aspects of life. While I have made progress in correcting past behaviors, I still grapple with the idea that it is not my role to make others good. Instead, I must focus on my own thoughts and actions, ensuring they are rational and beneficial rather than impulsive and destructive.

At times, it can be challenging to believe that it is my duty to be good, especially when I witness others succeeding despite their questionable actions. However, comparing myself to others and their values is counterproductive. I must remember that this is beyond my control and should not be a cause for concern.

Building genuine optimism is another hurdle for me. I've realized that I cannot force enthusiasm or blindly have faith in anything, including myself. However, if there's anything I should have faith in, it should be my own capabilities and the potential for personal growth.

Continuing to learn and grow is an essential part of my job as a Stoic, and I am committed to this pursuit. Yet, I struggle with confidence in my ability to become a truly good person. My critical opinions and negative thoughts make it difficult for me to consider myself as such. It is an area where I need to work on aligning my actions and beliefs.

Reflecting on my relationship, I recognize that I have failed to do my job as a Stoic. My daily negativity has caused friction, and I fear it may be too late to mend the damage. I must acknowledge my role in her distress and understand that a sturdy relationship cannot be built on a crumbling foundation. I feel guilt and shame, questioning if it would be best for her if I weren't around. Despite these doubts, I still hope for a chance to repair our connection.

In light of the circumstances, all I can do is my best. I need to let go of trying to control the uncontrollable and focus solely on my role and duties in any given situation, even in the face of difficulties and setbacks. By doing what is good and virtuous, I can navigate the challenges ahead and continue to grow as a Stoic.

Join us in this episode of Navigate the Day as we explore our role as Stoics and strive to live up to the principles of virtue and rationality, finding inspiration in Marcus Aurelius' wisdom. Together, we can navigate life's obstacles and discover the true essence of being a Stoic.

Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!

Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books

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