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In this episode, I explore the wisdom of Epictetus as we dive into the idea of keeping our personal growth and philosophies to ourselves for a while, just as a seed needs time to grow before bearing fruit. Epictetus uses the metaphor of a plant to illustrate the importance of patience and maturity in our self-development journey.

We discuss the balance between being the sizzle and the steak in our actions and words, exploring the tendency to boast or show off our virtues and accomplishments prematurely. It's a reminder that true growth often happens quietly, behind the scenes, and that the ego-driven desire for external validation can hinder our progress.

I share personal experiences and reflections on how I've struggled with this balance in my own life, sometimes displaying sizzle when what's needed is more substance. We delve into the consequences of impulsive words and the importance of pausing to choose our words wisely, especially in moments of conflict.

Ultimately, this episode serves as a gentle reminder that our personal growth and self-improvement journey should be nurtured with patience, humility, and a focus on inner development rather than seeking external validation. So, are you sizzle or steak? Join me in navigating these thought-provoking questions and striving for a more meaningful existence.

Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!

Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books

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