Themes: avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, dysfunctional cycle, self-fulfilling prophecy, self-sabotage, passive aggressiveness, cognitive distortions
Yes, your significant other is doing (or not doing) so much to damage your relationship. BUT, is there any possibility that some of your actions may be feeding the cycle and creating a self-fulfilling prophecy? What would happen if we make sure our lane is completely clear before blaming our partner?